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Tips to Overcome Child A Lazy Learning


Some days ago I had a discussion with my friend sekos, he initially told me about her brother who are lazy to study but soon he will face the ultimate test elementary school graduation. Sebuat just named "Ardi", Ardi This includes children who can not learn as well or are lazy, if he learned it just to avoid the nagging sister and ibunyan who always told him to study and predictably as long as he's in the study conducted was only pretending to study or learn arbitrary, the school was just a routine day that just passed away, just to obey their parents.

What happens to Ardi actually the more experienced of school age children in our society. Countless how many parents complained and was disappointed with her sag value (bad) because of his lazy learning, and vice versa is not uncommon to find a child that we are also cranky or crying because always told to learn. Some people know the berating her, threatened the boy not to buy this and that if the child does not learn, compare their children with other children, or even parents who use violent means (pinched, poked, pinched, or hitting) . Obviously all this will greatly affect the students' physical and psychological.
Then exactly how how to cope with children who are lazy to learn? Still need we hear complaints keluahn parents of children who are lazy to learn? Should the boy sulking or crying because dimarahin parents and being ordered to learn?

Lazy learning in children is a form of psychological weakening mental state, intellectual, physical, and psychological child. Lazy learning arises from several factors, to be more easily divided into two major factors, namely: 1) intrinsic factor (from the inside of the child), and 2) extrinsic factors (external factors child).


1. From the Inner Child (Intrinsic)

Feeling lazy to learn arising from within the child can be caused by lack or absence of self-motivation. Motivation is likely to grow because the child does not yet know the benefits of learning or not there is something you want to accomplish. Besides fatigue in activity may result in decreased physical strength and mental slowing. For example, the play is too long, too many lessons and tutoring that, too many extracurricular follow this and that, or help work at home parent, a factor contributing to the decline of physical strength in children. Another example, is too old to cry, get angry (cranky) will also affect the child's psychological condition.


2. Of Foreign Children (Extrinsic)

Factors outside the child is no less great influence on the child's condition to be lazy learning. This happens because:

a. Parental Attitudes
The attitude of parents who are not paying attention to learn or otherwise too much attention, it could cause the child lazy to learn. Not enough there, many parents in our community who require children to learn just for the sake of numbers (values) and not teach our children the awareness and responsibility of children to learn as a student. As a result of these demands are not little children who are often stressed and grumpy (cranky) so that the value he was able to get less than satisfactory. Worse yet, it is not uncommon that parents angry and denounced his son when the child gets satisfactory value kuang. According to psychologists, elementary school-age children actually janga too diorentasikan on value (learning outcomes), but how to get used to studying, practicing responsibility, and practicing in a rule.

b. Teacher Attitudes
Teacher as a role model or a figure who frequently interact with their children and be proud, but not uncommon attitude of teachers in the school are also the object of complaints students. There are many different causes, ranging from the unpreparedness of teachers in teaching, not master the lesson to be taught, or because it is too much to give assignments and homework. In addition, the attitude is often late for class on time teaching, joking with certain students or bring the matter home to school, making the learning environment more uncomfortable, tense and scary for some students.

c. Attitude Friend
Typing a child interacts with his friends at school, children can certainly direct attention to one another, attitude, school supplies, clothing and accessories-other accessories. But unfortunately not all of your friends at school have a good attitude or behavior with more friends. A friend who is excessive in fashion school supplies or equipment to learn, such as branded shoes that are not covered by other friends, including school bags and stationery or bicycles and other toys, can indirectly be the envy of my friends who are less able. In the end there are children who demand their parents to ask buy school supplies similar to his friend. When not followed it in a lazy way learn in order to be granted the petition.

d. Atmosphere Study at Home
It is not a guarantee of mansions and stately made a studious child, nor a very modest absolute factor lazy child learn. The house can not create a good learning atmosphere is a house that was always filled with noise, a cluttered home state or condition of stale air. Besides the availability of facilities that excessive game at home can also interfere with children's learning interests. Starting from the radio using a cassette tape, CD, VCD, or a computer that is programmed for a game (games), such as the Game Boy, Game Watch and Play Stations. Conditions like this has great potential to not create a good learning atmosphere.

e. Means Learning
Learning tool is an absolute media that can support learning interest, lack or absence of a means to learn firsthand has created the conditions for the lazy kids learn. Constraints learning usually arise due to lack of specific classrooms, desks, books supporting (mini library), and good lighting. In addition, not tersediannya textbooks, exercise books, stationery and more, are other parts that tend to be automatic barriers child will lose interest in optimal learning.

Six step to overcome the MALS study on children and assist parents in guiding and assisting children with problems in learning, among others:

1. Looking for Information
Parents should ask the child to obtain precise information about him. Look for the right circumstances to be able to communicate openly with him. After that, take your child to reveal the cause of his lazy learning. Use any such relaxed atmosphere while helping mom in the kitchen, take a walk or while playing, do not have formal which makes the child could not open her problems.

2. Creating Collective agreements between parents and children.
A deal was made to create the circumstances and responsibility and motivate children to learn not to impose the will of the parents. A deal was made starting from waking up to going to bed time, both in routine hours of study, length of time to learn, time to learn when you have homework or not, hours of study at school holiday time, what if the learning outcomes are good or bad, what reward or sanction must be accepted, and so on. Even if there are sanctions to be made or agreed upon, let the children identify it as evidence of his responsibility for something that will be mutually agreed.

3. Creating the Discipline.
It is not an easy thing to create a discipline to the child if the parents are not starting. Parents who are used to show discipline in daily life will be easily followed by his son. Parents can create the discipline of learning undertaken consistently and continuously. Exercise discipline can be started from preparing learning tools, textbooks, school assignments warned, asking lessons learned material, or asking the difficulties encountered in a particular subject, regardless of whether or not a school assignment.

4. Enforcing discipline.
Enforcing discipline should be done when the child begins to leave the agreement that has been agreed upon. When the child as much as possible to avoid violations of physical sanctions (pinched, poked, pinched, or hitting). To divert use logical consequences that can be accepted by the mind of children. When you can do activities together in one room while children learn, parents can while reading newspapers, magazines, or other activities that do not interfere with the child in the space. Thus enforcing discipline in children is not always the messenger or screaming while the parents perform other activities such as watching television or busy in the kitchen.

5. Assertiveness Attitude
Assertiveness attitudes done by the parents no longer tolerate the child for offenses he did repeatedly. Assertiveness attitude worn while the child completely rejected and denied by a made-up excuse. Even with a child intentionally apply 'dishonest' conduct other activities deliberately to pass hours of learning. Assertiveness is an attitude that is needed to provide the agreed sanctions and ready to accept the consequences of the offense.

6. Creating a Learning Atmosphere
Creating a good learning atmosphere and comfortable is the responsibility of the parent. At least the parents meet the needs of a means of learning, paying attention by directing and assisting children while learning. As an interlude parents can also provide educational games that are not tense atmosphere of learning and continues to attract attention.

Apparently lazy learning experienced by many children is caused by various factors. Therefore, before the child already received an unsatisfactory grade and embarrassing to my parents, parents should immediately investigate the child's interest in learning and attention. In addition, the initiative fosters independent learning in children, instilling awareness and responsibility as a student in children is another useful long-term. If these six steps can be applied to the child, then it should not adalagi complaints from parents about their children lazy learning or child sulking because his parents always scolded.

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