In a study conducted by professors in the USA, there are two monkeys who put in an empty room together-2. We call it the monkey monkeys A and B. Inside the room there is a pole, and the pole is visible on some ripe bananas. What will be done by 2 monkeys do you think?
After familiarizing themselves with the state of the environment in the room, they started trying to grab the banana-2. Monkey A-2 were initially trying to climb the pole. Once a monkey was in the middle of the pole, the professor squirt water at him, so terpleset and fall. A monkey tried again, and sprayed, dropped again, so many monkeys A 2 and finally gave up. Next turn trying to monkey B, suffered a similar incident, and finally gave up as well.
Next into the room put a monkey C. Interestingly, the professors will no longer spray the monkeys if they rise. Once the monkey C from touching the pole, he was immediately drawn by monkeys A and B. They are trying to prevent, that monkey C had no `bad luck 'as they are. Because prevented continued and advised about the dangers when trying to climb up, monkey C finally scared and never climb again.
The next step taken by the professors was issued monkeys A and B, as well as insert monkeys D and E. Just like the monkey-2 before, monkeys D and E are also interested in the banana on the pole and tried to climb. Monkey C spontaneously directly prevent them being up. "Hey, why can not we go up?" Protested two ".
There were two friends-who told me, that rise to the top is dangerous. I also do not know what's up, but better safe than sorry looking, not up deh "explains monkey C.
Monkey D believed and dared not go up, but not so with the monkey E who was recalcitrant. "I want to know what the heck hazards, which is on top ... And if there is a danger, yes, I do not cook can avoid it?" Said the monkey E. Although it has been prevented by monkeys C and D, monkey E daring ride ...
Which among the characters above that describes your current behavior?
Character A and B are people who have done something, and failed. Because they give up, will not repeat it again, and try to teach to others about the failure. They do not want others to also fail like them. Character C and D, is the one who receives instruction from another person, the second of what not to do, and they obeyed, not daring to try it for yourself. E is the type of character who is not easily believe in something, before they try it themselves. They also dare to go against the grain and take the risk as long as it can achieve their desires.
Bananas in the story above illustrates our dreams. Every person in this life has a tall dream about his future. But unfortunately, a lot of things going on around us, causing our dreams buried. One-2 ABCD characters will tell us two things like this, "Let's not do the work it-2 like that. Useless. I've done many first-2 and failed. As a good friend, I do not want you to fail like me "or perhaps the phrase" You're going to fail like the X ... better do something surely-surely it deh ". Is not it-2 such that we often hear everyday-2?
People with character E will always think optimistically in doing something. "Even if others fail to do something, I will not necessarily fail" is a force that is always pumping motivation.
And failures of others can be studied and used as a springboard to move better, not be a fear.
Well, I will give one more illustration. I will bring you into the 70's. What would you do, if one day there was a college student in jeans, thick glasses, geeky-looking, shabby clothes, came to you and said "I have a good product, but I do not have the capital. I do not want pinjamin capital of 100 dollars? If the product is a success, we're both going to be the richest man in the world you know. "
Almost all students will insult and they will laugh, maybe he is crazy.
How many people will say "Wow, that's great, try to explain what your plans, so that we can be just as rich-2?" Maybe one person among a million, might as well not exist.
What if I told you that the student is Bill Gates, who has now achieved his dream of becoming the richest man in the world?
Is not that first made Bill Gates at the start of his career. Surrounded by the type ABCD, rejected, abused, and various other insults. Fortunately, Bill Gates, including those with characters E. And with the sacrifice and hard work, he managed to achieve his dream.
"Do not let anyone kill your dream. Continue forward, facing all the obstacles and achieve your dreams."