Well, this is a theme that often eagerly awaited by parents and often many parents complained. "Why does my child enjoy learning guns, maen wrote all day," complained one mother who attended diseminar me. The reader, you believe that our true human life is a learner? But we often leave an unpleasant treatment when children learn (unconsciously) even before we were probably given the wrong stimulation so that learning is not fun.
For example, when we are infants and children aged 1 year. He wanted to include all the stuff that he can hold in his mouth, right? Well most people do when it is said "uh ... it was gross, guns should not" pulling the goods. Actually this is the basic behavior when a child is learning. Then when he began to walk, started wanting to know more about the environment, the more restrictions issued by parents or caregivers. Perhaps because tired babysitting all day, so many restrictions issued. And this is their desire to know (learn) more, filling the database in his brain that is empty and needs to be filled.
As I began to speak, asking this and that. "It's what? Why? "Accepted answer" LHA had been asked, ask again the basic chatty "as possible when it is tired caregivers and parents while also keeping so lazy and tired to give an explanation and this is a learning process of a child. There's new stuff at home and the children want to hold it or to know more closely, we parents and guardians keep the goods from him, saying later damaged by expensive goods.
From the example above where this piece was a real experience and some of my clients, who make children lazy learning?
Next there was an 8 year old boy, just call Aji. Her parents complained that their children do not like to study and has received a warning from the teacher if there is no change in the attitude then most likely Aji grade. At first, I'm sure Aji is a child prodigy. For a moment I asked about her favorite hobby and while playing, I instantly knew this amazing kid. Because after I asked about his hobby apparently football and his love of the team is Arsenal (Premier League). And Aji, memorized entire Arsenal first team and reserves, following his assistant coaches and players as well as the number back, and the players birthday goal scorer and assists list (giving feedback) and point and order the league standings. Crazy, unbelievable! (In my heart) Guns wrong at the hardware (brain), but the problem is the same software.
One person of the same child, if his brain is not functioning at school to learn lessons (arithmetic, memorization) but memorized all Arsenal players. What a stupid kid? Surely you agree with me, the answer is no. This kid is unbelievable clever. It's just one treatment so that he is lazy and does not like to learn.
So what I did to change in order to be good and the software is so easy to make children learn? I fixed that parents first, because for the child's age Aji, if there is a problem in his life means parents will help to overcome the problem of the child. I was taught how to communicate with the child and the nature of the child's mind, and the importance of love menomor unite in educating children, all of whom will be very long if I explain here.
Next are tips on how to order, our children to be diligent and easy to learn and a school.
1. When home from school asking "O dear, what a fun day at school?" Automatic child's brain will find fun things in school and this will indirectly tell the child that school is a fun place.
2. When children sleep (Hypnosleep), saying "the more a day, learning more fun", "as well as playing, learning is also great fun," "easy for you to learn (math, memorization, etc.)".
3. Explain the benefits of the lessons being learned (according to the child's interests) eg by studying multiplication, then later during the holidays to the next grade or you'll be able to calculate how much things would you buy in Singapore and you can compare prices in Indonesia. If you dominate the conversation in English and you will be very easy to communicate with coaches soccer balls are from Thailand.
4. Ask the tutor lessons (if any), often say that our kids are great kids and outstanding. Sincere praise and pumping his spirit is far more important than the techniques taught math and memorization fast. Enlist the help of the people around, including teachers, to improve the self-esteem of our children.
5. When our children were little and still love to read fairy tales, fairy tales read to him assuming the position (a position comfortable, and easier for us parents to give kisses or hugs love love) the goal that children associate reading with love of parents and the book is a very pleasant thing.
6. Use a secret letter from parents to children, we can say, "Son, Mom has put a secret letter for you. Just you and your mom knows it. Mom put a pillow under your bed, read after eating yes ". Its contents may be words that encourage children in learning and school activities.